Interview with Blitz Author Ebonee Monique
June 1, 2011 by Editor
Filed under Book Blog Tour, Interviews
Introduce Yourself to Readers
My name is Ebonee Monique, author of Suicide Diaries, Walk a Mile and the 2011 release, Blitz. In a nutshell, I’m your everyday woman. I laugh, I cry, I live, I love & I’m blessed enough to put all of that into the format of books & stories. I’m a native Floridian and a graduate of the illustrious Florida A&M University and an avid hip-hop fan. Oh. I’m the coolest person I know, too! J
Tell us about your novel Blitz.
Mia Robinson has worked hard to obtain an affluent lifestyle. With plenty of money in the bank, an impressive network of tastemaker friends, a booming real-estate business and a loving man by her side she is assured that she and daughter Brandi will never lack the finer things in life. However, when Brandi’s long-lost father mysteriously returns in their lives, Mia must work overtime to make sure a buried secret doesn’t resurface.
While Mia struggles with the decision to give Charles a child, she learns that her soon-to-be fifteen year old daughter is pregnant. Soon people began to whisper, friends turn away and social circles become smaller. Will the bombardment of the unexpected demolish Mia’s dream life or will this rags-to-riches, self-made tycoon rise to the challenge and maintain control?
You have written several titles, how would you describe your writing style?
I write what I see in my life & what I hear about from the lives of my family & friends. People picking up my books won’t really see things too far-fetched; I think that’s the beauty of my writing. I’m not the next Terry. I’m not the next Kimberla. I’m not the next Sheneska. I’m the first Ebonee Monique. I value the thought of being able to be the voice of my generation. I’m not interested in making up outlandish stories but, rather, telling everyday stories that people can relate & learn from.
What separates Blitz from your other titles?
With Suicide Diaries, I was writing and grieving at the same time. I love Suicide Diaries, but it’s not one of my books that I can pick up at any time & read. I really have to prepare myself for that. Suicide Diaries deals SO much with the grief of losing a loved one to suicide (Note: Ebonee lost her first love to suicide in 2004), that it’s almost impossible not to go back to that dark place. It’s a great story that had to be told, though.
With Walk a Mile, it was just fun to tell the story of such a proud b*tch. The emotions tied to watching someone grow and learn that life isn’t fair but it’s also not on the hunt to bring you down, is apparent in this story. I’ve had people tell me they hated Sydnee (the main character) at the beginning but by the end of the book they understood her journey. That’s the point of books, to see the evolution of characters amidst turmoil.
Finally, Blitz really gave me an opportunity to delve into the life of a single-mother who has gone from abuse and poverty and risen to millionaire status, all while making sure that her daughter has everything she could ever ask for. The story is just as much about her journey as it is the blitzes that come along and threaten to tear down the ladder she’s on. I think, again, I’ve captured genuine emotions & situations and relayed them to the masses.
Who is you favorite character in the novel? Which character do you want readers to connect with the most and why?
Probably Charles (Mia’s long-time boyfriend) because I don’t think there is enough good black men showcased in books. Charles loved Mia and all of her baggage with no complaints or hesitation and that’s beyond commendable.
Who are some of you favorite authors and why?
Sheneska Jackson-she was actually the first author that I met (as a teenager) and helped me to see that it was believable that I could write for a living. I credit her with nurturing a seed within me.
BeBe Moore Campbell- I was immediately drawn to her style of writing because I could close my eyes and imagine myself right in the middle of one of her scenes. There was nothing outlandish about her writing…it just felt like one of my aunts or cousins were telling a really, really detailed story; I appreciated that about her. I also loved that by the end of a story you were ready to debate and talk about things.
Terry McMillan- What can I say? For many people, Terry brought African American fiction to the forefront of America with “Waiting to Exhale” and, for that, I have the utmost respect for her & her craft.
Pearl Cleage- Whew! Without a doubt, she is definitely one that made me appreciate the beauty of every-day life writing. So many times I think authors think they have to create these unbelievable storylines in order for readers to like them…Ms. Cleage proves otherwise. Sometimes you want to relate to what you’re reading.
You have an extensive experience in radio, has your experience helped marketing your books? If so how?
I think my experience in radio/marketing/PR/Promotions, etc. have helped me tremendously. I try to work on the gauge of “What would I find interesting as a Program Director/Editor” and I think that’s helped me. Also, I have an appreciation for how hard it is to create & wait. Much like singers, rappers, etc. the create & wait aspect is BRUTAL. You create your project & you wait for the feedback of the masses. It’s always nerve-wracking.
What are your hobbies?
Besides writing? I love online shopping!! A lot of my friends say they can’t do online shopping, but it’s the only way I like to shop. Put me in 50 dressing rooms in one day & I’ll be ready to flip on someone. I’d much rather shop with a glass of wine in one hand, credit card in the other. I figure, if it doesn’t fit I’ll just return & try again!
What is your opinion of literature in your city? Are there a lot of bookstores, readers and are they supportive of your work?
I’m a statewide rapper, but I think that Florida as a whole a pretty decent scope of writers. I think, at this point, there are a lot of budding writers on the brink of blowing & I can’t wait to cheer them on. I’m always supportive of other writers-regardless of where they’re from-because I think there’s enough fans, enough money, enough opportunities, etc. for everyone to get their shine on!
How will readers be able to connect with you and learn more about Blitz and your other titles for purchase?
Official Website: www.eboneemonique.com
On Twitter: @eboneemonique
Blog: www.eboneemonique.wordpress.com
Publisher site: www.peaceinthestormpublishing.com
Blitz by Ebonee Monique (Book Trailer)
May 19, 2011 by Editor
Filed under Book Blog Tour, Book Trailers
Paperback: 240 pages
Publisher: Peace In The Storm Publishing (June 1, 2011)
Language: English
ISBN-13: 978-0982967270
Price: 15:00
Description:
Mia Robinson has worked hard to obtain an affluent lifestyle. With plenty of money in the bank, an impressive network of tastemaker friends, a booming real-estate business and a loving man by her side she is assured that she and daughter Brandi will never lack the finer things in life. However, when Brandi’s long-lost father mysteriously returns in their lives, Mia must work overtime to make sure a buried secret doesn’t resurface. While Mia struggles with the decision to give Charles a child, she learns that her soon-to-be fifteen year old daughter is pregnant. Soon people began to whisper, friends turn away and social circles become smaller. Will the bombardment of the unexpected demolish Mia’s dream life or will this rags-to-riches, self-made tycoon rise to the challenge and maintain control?
Book Trailer
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The Power of Positive Thinking at Peace in the Storm Publishing
The Power of Positive Thinking at Peace in the Storm Publishing
Peace in the Storm Publishing looks for talented writers and storytellers in a wide variety of genres. The subject matter ranges from fiction and mystery to erotica and Christian fiction.
Inspiration is the cornerstone of any new endeavor, and the creation of Peace in the Storm Publishing is no different. The company motto is “Giving your Soul a Rise, One Page at a Time.” Soul is definitely at the heart of Peace in the Storm publishing, and God is often sighted as a source of strength and inspiration on the company’s website. God and spirituality obviously played a huge role in bringing Peace in the Storm Publishing into existence.
Recently, we were able to sit down with founder Elissa Gabrielle. We explored the inspiration behind Peace in the Storm Publishing, as well as what personally motivates Elissa.
Elissa discussed the fascinating origins of the company’s name. It is attributed to her jazz musician father, Joe Thomas, who wrote a song titled, “Peace in the Storm.” She was only ten the first time she heard the song, but it resonated with her throughout her life. The impact of this song on her was very dramatic, as Elissa felt the song’s lyrics were powerful ones. Remarkably, Elissa, at the young age of ten, decided she would some day have a company that carried the name of her father’s song.Just as her father’s song motivated her, Elissa, in turn, wants Peace in the Storm Publishing to motivate others. Elissa states, “With each book, there will be something that will entertain, encourage, and enlighten. I’m extremely proud of that.”
All businesses face challenges, yet Elissa addressed the obstacles she has faced in a unique and determined way. She says that while the “devil has a way of trying to stop your progress, especially when you’re trying to chase your dreams,” she has found that she can still overcome many obstacles. One key strategy she has employed in tackling her obstacles is the power of positive thinking. She says that she has a “glass is half full” philosophy. She uses this positive philosophy in conjunction with constantly asking God for guidance and wisdom.
Elissa feels that Peace in the Storm Published has, to date, faced two distinct challenges. The first challenge was that of selecting authors for her initial launch. It was vitally important to her that they were a diverse group, who would appeal to as wide of an audience as possible. The second major obstacle was the complexities of developing a brand; once this challenge was met, she stated that everything was easier. Elissa said that once the branding for the publishing company was set in stone it has been “smooth sailing.”
Jacqueline D. Moore, author of Serving Justice stated what makes Peace In the Storm Publishing so unique is “The make-up of the group. The styles of writing are as varied as the women themselves.”
Lorraine Elzia, author of Mistress Memoirs, added, “Peace in the Storm prides itself on the quality of the authors, the quality of the stories and the quality of the representation of the company.”
Jessica A. Robinson, author of Holy Seduction states “We are unique because we are truly family and we believe in being trendsetters for excellence. We always try to raise the bar with our professionalism.”
These three quotes do wonders to illuminate the perspective of all those involved in Peace in the Storm Publishing. Clearly, all involved are focused on promoting hard-working authors, and focused on creating quality books that are inspirational and motivating.
Elissa’s advice for new writers attempting to get into the publishing business should be very helpful those just starting out. She feels that research is paramount because knowledge is power. Being informed about the business, being determined to meet your goals, and asking for God’s assistance and guidance are all part of the formula. Again, it was impressive to see Elissa’s consistent optimism shine through.
2009 looks as though it will be a great year for Peace in the Storm Publishing, as there are 10 authors slated for publication, with even more titles planned for 2010. Be sure you take a look at and keep an eye on their website www.peaceinthestormpublishing.com for updates and new titles. With someone as determined and positive as Elissa at the helm, there is little doubt that 2009 and 2010 will be impressive years for Peace in the Storm Publishing.
INTERVIEW UPDATE (10/09)
After the African American Awards, I caught up with Elissa Gabrielle to discuss the success of 2009.
UM: Positive thinking, creating a meaningful brand and great books garnered Peace in the Storm publishing several awards at the African America Literary Award show in 2009.
Did you expect to win and how did it feel?
Elissa: Mr. Wells, honestly, I didn’t expect to win any of the five categories Peace In The Storm Publishing had garnered nominations in. I was very honored and humbled to even be considered. How did it feel? Awesome. And not for the reasons you may think. See, in 2009, I lost my sister suddenly. Her name was Jodi and she was only 44 years old. I had never experienced pain on such a monumental level before in my life and the pain made me lose my way for some time. I still performed the roles of publisher, because I had a job to do, but it was truly a performance.
Shortly thereafter, my dad, well-known jazz musician Joe Thomas fell ill, and we weren’t sure if he would make it. For some time, he wasn’t even able to walk. I couldn’t have predicted the very highs and the very lows that I experienced in 2009. I was extremely grateful and humbled by the fact that my parents were able to witness the awards, to be there with me, and I prayed that somehow it lessened the trauma of my sister’s death. It was a happy day for all of us. And, my dad is now able to walk. So, while the awards are great, the real icing on the cake was that I was able to share such a special moment in my life with those I love the most – family, because as you know this is life is not a dress rehearsal. We are blessed with life, and we must treasure our time here on this earth with family and loved ones. And, I can’t lie, it feels great being a winner. Who doesn’t love that feeling? I am responsible for the literary careers of 11 authors, so bringing home the “gold” gave me a little more confidence and encouragement to do the best job I can for the Peace In The Storm authors.
UM: What has been the toughest challenge in the publishing industry? Was the challenge expected or inspected?
EG: That’s a hard question to answer because I’m not sure if I look at the actual challenges as challenges. I sort of stay in my own little bubble, and do my own thing for me and the authors of Peace In The Storm. In identifying one challenge, I suppose it was receiving information that I needed to move forward. Valuable resources and information are sometimes not readily available to the people seeking it. So, getting information to help Peace In The Storm grow was probably the most difficult thing to do. I guess I expected it. However, life is filled with speed bumps, roadblocks and stop signs. Our normal tendency is to listen to the world as it tells us to slow down or even stop, behind a belief that some things in life are out of our reach and beyond our attainment and control. The world wants to cushion our expectations and to ultimately limit our goals. But thankfully, there is a God. And with faith in Him and His mercies, He gives us pedals upon which to accelerate and a path of green lights upon which to proceed when others tell us we can’t possibly move forward. My Peace In The Storm journey has been an ongoing saga of having faith and believing that even though others can give me molehills of why Peace In The Storm can’t, My God gives me mountains of why Peace In The Storm can. There will undoubtedly be more challenges that lay ahead, but I have to remain focused for me and the authors of Peace In The Storm. I’ll continue to allow God to order my steps and will lean on Him for guidance when the continued challenges arise.
UM: Other than the awards and accolades, what has been your reward?
EG: My reward has been helping others. Nothing beats the feeling I get when an author calls me when they have their book in their hand. I try to really be involved with the overall publishing process, so the author and I develop a real bond as the process continues. When that part of the process is complete, I feel joy right along with the author when they’ve achieved their dream. I’m happy for my authors because they are worthy, and they deserve all the goodness that is sure to come. They work hard, and it’s been both and honor and a pleasure to witness them chase, and finally reach their literary goals. So, for me, the biggest reward is to help them make their dreams come true. Ain’t nothing like it.
UM: Now that you have found success and have been recognized as one of the leading publishers, what’s next in 2010?
EG: I think it’s going to take years for me to become a leading publisher, if that ever happens. Only God knows for sure, and only time will tell. I’m still learning and there are many more miles I need to travel. Honestly, I’m happy to be on this journey and I’m looking forward to what the future holds for Peace In The Storm and its authors. For 2010, we have two new authors, so far, that have joined the Peace In The Storm roster; Brian Ganges, and Pamela D. Rice. Returning are the award-winning Jacqueline D. Moore, Lorraine Elzia, Cheryl Lacey Donovan, and the literary-award nominated S.D. Denny, and Ebonee Monique, in addition to Tamara Angela Grant, Jessica A. Robinson, and LaToya S. Watkins. I will also release another novel in 2010. The lineup is really fantastic and I’m very excited about the 2010 releases. These authors have really stepped up their game and they will not let their readers down. Please visit www.peaceinthestormpublishing.com in December to preview the 2010 lineup from these incredibly gifted authors.
UM: Positive thinking can go a long way, but can’t get the job done alone. As a publisher, what was one of your most successful strategies that you implemented this year?
EG: In recognizing that I was a small press and a new publishing company, I needed to ensure that Peace In The Storm came out with a bang, and in order to do that, I was very selective in the process I used to choose the books in which I would publish. I wanted diverse genres and broad appeal. In doing so, the quality of books under the Peace In The Storm umbrella was very high, because I looked for stories that were above the norm. Now don’t mistake me, I don’t mean better, I just mean different. I was not interested in publishing just for the sake of publishing, but I had a real concern about the quality of books that bore the Peace In The Storm name. After choosing high quality manuscripts, I focused and encouraged my authors to direct all of their attention on marketing. The importance of marketing can sometimes be lost on publishing companies and I made sure it was not lost on me, or on the authors under the Peace In The Storm publishing house. There are so many great publishers out there, how would anyone recognize Peace In The Storm and its authors? Realizing that if Peace In The Storm was going to make a name for ourselves, it had to be done through a progressive and aggressive marketing campaign. We all were new to the literary scene, nobody knew our names, and when starting out with brand new authors, it was my goal as the publisher, to make their names as individuals, as well as the company brand, a household name as quickly and professionally as possible. I think that initiative on the part of me, as the publisher, and on the part of my authors, was one of the most successful strategies that helped Peace In The Storm overcome some of the obstacles that other small presses have difficulty overcoming, and that is being noticed. It’s very hard to be noticed. I’m so very grateful that we were acknowledged. But I’m even more happy that our readers are pleased with the work that we’ve put out there.
UM: As an author what was one of your most successful strategies that you implemented?
EG: I’ll tell you a little about my latest novel, A Whisper to a Scream. A Whisper to a Scream is the story of Queen Thomas, a successful defense attorney who is very passionate about defending the African American male. She has seen that the justice system has not been so fair and kind to them, so it is her mission to save as many of these men as she possibly can. A speed bump comes along in the form of Dr. Quincy Hughes which makes her question everything she’s believed in and has fought for, for so long. The interracial element of the book was the most difficult part to write effectively. I had to do a lot of research, because I had no direct knowledge or experience with interracial relationships, so in order to make it authentic, I had to really work hard. I challenged myself on so many levels with A Whisper to a Scream. Queen Thomas is a defense attorney, so I had to research to make sure that the courtroom drama was real. In addition to that, I needed to highlight the domestic violence parts of the book. Poetry is something that is laced throughout the book as well as the recurring theme of “whispers” and “screams” so this was the most technical book I’ve ever written. I enjoyed the challenge of having a book that was so well thought out and well written. That was my goal and I enjoyed reaching that goal. So, in terms of strategy as an author that was implemented, was giving the reader a book that exceeded my expectations as a writer. I wanted to give the people more and I’m hoping that strategy will prove to be successful.
What Lies in the Souls of Men? By Alvin C. Romer
October 4, 2009 by Editor
Filed under Urban Essays
What Lies in the Souls of Men?
Alvin C. Romer
Does anyone really care about what men think nowadays, or what really lies deep within our souls? In 2008 most men that have lived a bit should be at the crossroads of their lives. Living the life and being able to transcend to levels of expectancy may not have been what we lived, give or take a few triumphs here and there. Of course there were the pitfalls, and we talk about them in bedrooms and boardrooms. We’ve had time to look deep within ourselves to exact some modicum of responsibility for the things that have been at our grasps to control…and if change is indeed indicative of wanting to do what is right, there are quite a few who wouldn’t complain. As husbands, fathers, sons, brothers, uncles, nephews, and mentors there are varying degrees of angst still lurking on the periphery that have not proven to be harbingers of good for men in general and Black men specifically, and we have a lot to say about them. Some would argue that the scales have not been equal, and parity is nothing more than a dream. Our conversations continue where voices are open and the volume much too high where truths are not arguable to good intent. Thus, the identification and definition of outward manifestations of inner soulfulness are portrayed in the minds of those that want to make a difference. Is it far-fetched to believe then that accountability should be first and foremost a prerequisite for first impressions? This is uppermost in my mind, and holds the glue to anything cohesive in this essay. Psychologists have analyzed the minds and souls of men for the longest and still there are doubts and intrigue to the psyche of what makes us tick, and why do we do the things we do. Undoubtedly there are collective reports that may be subjective to theories of thought, but what about individuals coming full circle to ask some of the same queries to gauge truth for better understanding, and to dispel any notions of negativism? What we think is important, and I feel that people DO and want to know what we are all about.
So here I am ready to solve a piece of a puzzle that is missing coherence and clarity to some to shed light on this dark passage – understanding men! My good friend and editor of the book you’re reading approached me with the query, “what is in the soul of men?” If you think nobody gives a hoot what Black men are thinking, think again. I often wonder myself! Nonetheless, some people would rather open us up and see why we do what we do, especially when there are those that fear us, and would do anything to keep us second class. We are a force – I know this because I’m aware that the corporate world loves us because they can coerce us to buy their products. Politicians have exploited us for years with promises and more promises. Banks coddle us because they want the deposits that fuel their institutional worth. The media, including TV, radio, and now the internet, want you to redefine what role models they want you to emulate…they want you to pay attention to more stereotypical crap. The point is, all of them want something from us. And when someone has a demand, and it’s us that they are after, we got power over them. Yes we, do! Anytime a collective group of people can earn more than 400 million dollars a year – that’s clout, baby! As a man of color, there are a plethora of things I’m always thinking about that have the propensity to make the grade for reflective thought. The depth of my soul is like a bottomless pit that cannot define volume. I’ve thought long and hard on how to answer this question and have come up with a few caveats that I’d like to share.
But first, hear me out. There’s just too much on the minds of men, where our souls are retched with pangs of how to do the right thing. It’s not far-fetched that men should be scrutinized for any meaningful intent in times like these. I welcome the chance to talk about my thoughts personally, and generically what other men SHOULD be thinking about. Every now and then the Black man’s long odyssey in America demands that we be heard. People want to know what lies beneath the shroud of anger and foreboding that has dogged us in time…and we haven’t been quiet, mind you. When the whispers get louder, the voices cry out in despair, rail against injustice, defy oppression, and have spoken truth with power and eloquence. For every man like me who will not be stifled by passivity, hundreds more are rising to occasions to be viable in communities struggling to be held accountable to legitimate concern. Other variables and paradoxes are at play, too. I think about the homeless and the predicament that dog the jobless. I’m at wit’s end with how to cope with the reality of stereotypical angst that propels the former and the latter. Success runs in our race for sure. At times we are embraced, sometimes we’re ignored, but mostly we are not understood by many who only see what’s on the surface. We endeavor to soar in triumphant unison where demand for respect is par for any course of acceptance. It’s when nostalgia reign supreme and my mind revert to thinking about the injustices and ill-will that we’ve had to endure that causes the hackles on my neck to stand on end. I feel that it’s always a moment to lament and wish that the pendulum swung yet the other way. I believe that time and circumstance has ways of affording the most astute among us chances to be the progenitors of good things despite all of the above. Moreover, we’ve always had our voices for self-affirmation and a sense of legitimacy. Each generation brings about change and new hope for better understanding as we talk among ourselves, and bring a sense of honor to our thoughts. It inspires us anew, and our souls and minds are full of the aforementioned ‘voices’. Thus, the real machismo insists that we are heard – our souls cry out to be taken seriously.
My idea of what lies in the soul of a man has many elements. Black men are much too complex for only surface matter to suffice, without myriads of other situations floating subconscious in mind. We’re not without reproach for things that we should be doing. I feel that men should first look in the mirror and see intrusively the need for concern dealing with self-esteem, lack of integrity and no accomplished value to have a better meaning to life in positive ways. What lies in the soul of a man? I can answer the question easily from a personal vantage point. It starts with me by being true to myself and maintaining an innate sense of relevance. Alas, I know that God made me in the image of Him, and had great plans for me, but along the way I stumbled… The African-American male, much maligned as he is, cannot be stereotyped any more justifying damages already incurred. What lies beneath the hubris is enough to begin the process for challenge and change as I regained my balance. With a new lease on life I picked up the gauntlet and ran with it! The intent is to posit frames of references to illustrate what black Americans should expect out of their men as opposed to what has been shown thus far on the surface. Interestingly enough, the first man of creation, Adam was given a blueprint and a set of directives and he failed miserably…so much so that the Divine plan originally entrusted to him didn’t exactly go awry to the point where we couldn’t eventually get it right. The souls of men should first emanate with a strong presence for spirituality where integrity can define a sense of worth for any progressive success. I feel that we could do a better job of stepping up, exerting ourselves and demanding respect on all levels of achieved reckoning.
What are we thinking about when we sit passively watching our communities fall in disrepair, see our families grow apart from apathy and lack of spiritual resolve, and most importantly, allow our progeny to fall prey to icons that are detrimental to their growth? I won’t say that my past is not checkered like so many of my peers, but having been there and done that, maturity served its purpose when my attention became centered on blueprints to construct a better role model. It is for the roles I’m destined to play in communities of thought and action. The wrongness that existed in my former life demanded that I make this change, and it took away the momentum of a nagging nemesis for intangibles to become much more than reality. You see, I once begged, borrowed, and stole anything that would allow me to be at the top of my egotistical game. I dressed the part, and allowed material things to define the fabric of my being. I was insecure at a time when I didn’t want to make mistakes that would have subsequent bearing on my career. I was a slave to sex, and at times disrespected women, myself, and distorted the truth enough to render me a mere caricature of the natural talent I had. Yes, I recall the times – ‘The ‘sensational seventies’ where the music was live and my imaginations ran away from me!
Time in its proper place will always be the barometer for change. I was able to triumph over adversity and iniquity by professing to elicit a better way of being respected, as there was something in it for me. I learned that in order to respect, one must intrusively pay homage in humble ways to see empathy in those with whom they endeavor to respect. Self-esteem became my focus, and it was not easy loving yourself in order to love others. I learned this by studying the Word. I began to think personally about how I could stop the degradation of women that I readily exploited in various segments of my carnal spirit. Instead of being the hunter after the game, I allowed the game to capture me…and in doing so I was forced to give them something to be respected of. Moreover, I thought about how equal parity could be afforded to women who were heading households while I was laying in the cut, or being cut down by society’s injustices. I sought to stop feeling sorry for myself and thinking that someone of another persuasion was the reason for my angst. I needed to think about what I can do to loosen the strings of racist attitudes and not allow it to hold me back
I can’t speak for all men, but I’m sure enough will agree that our dreams will often be imprisoned and relegated to the mockery and amusement of an unbelieving and unforgiving public. At times, life’s struggles, external and internal, will test the very souls for challenging resolve to go within. This is where self-esteem and integrity play the better part for us to get right. Social ills render us helpless, and we harbor thoughts, and sometimes do detrimental things to exacerbate the problems. Change allowed me to get completely naked; and as I stood before the mirror and saw myself for whom I really was, I stripped myself of all of the shame, guilt, and temptation of that which was not good for my soul. It forced me to get to know Him better as I looked deeper and saw the wonders of God’s penchant for putting everything where it should be at this point in my life. I had to find myself and the gift of discernment to let options be definitive of my actions – those where common sense would give good meaning to deductive reasoning. I couldn’t ignore that still small voice that roared so vociferously in my soul in the dead of night whenever He visited. It’s often at this hour that God prodded me to continue beyond sunrise to give more light at sunset!
The career I’ve carved learning to be a respected as a journalist and freelance writer is best exemplified in my writing. That’s my voice. I endeavor to write with clarity hoping that my peers see my worth. Along the way I got spiritual and spirited. I no longer worry about the friends I may have lost in my quest to be the best I can be. Words, wit, and new-found wisdom are my bosom buddies and my creativity will always flow. As I wrote, my thoughts gave new meaning to humbleness, and an ego that was lessened and lengthened for my journey subsided. It is my hope that my brothers and my many peers join me on this trip in making our race a good one to challenge what is needed for acceptance, be it from and to ourselves, or from different persuasions. The road we travel is not an easy one. What are we thinking about then? Our minds are not idle, and my mind is full and reverberating. I’m a conversationalist at heart and will talk to anyone willing to debate realism vs. ambiguity. There are some like myself who will run as fast as we can for the finish line of life, where God would be there to shake hands and say, “well done my faithful servants!” I want to be deserving of this, because I do not want to see women continuing to be the head of households, and where my community is not run by matriarchy. I want my young folk to take inventory of their lives so that self, family and community are interwoven for sustained awareness. I want black-on-black crime to cease for Agape Love to permeated using a sense of connectivity, commitment and the commission of good intent.
Lastly and certainly not lease of my thoughts were of those where I could be looked at with respect in any setting and excel because of, and not despite my race. Nowadays, it’s all about living vertically and continually seeking space to keep my thoughts just as reverent. The triumph of my soul is complete as I strive to make my achievements accountable. I’ve done some serious re-evaluation of my life while thinking back on my past. I do not lament for that which should have been, or what should be! I looked intrusively in that mirror I spoke of earlier, and didn’t allow laxity to dispel the truth that stared back at me. I lay bare my soul, and as black men with so many wrongs to right and for accountability to have value, we must challenge and be challenged. Of course I pray more now as I seek a greater audience with Him. I did it by using a triumvirate sense of awareness putting self, family, and community at the forefront of my initiatives. There’s a lot I will uphold to justify my covenant with God, with the changes I made in my life. I want to continue on an even plain. The applications that I’m adhering to, and the solutions thereof, are about a simple plan: I will live a code of honor where ethics and just doing the right thing will give much more to meaningful intent; I will live, learn, and listen more. Live for the moment that is, and allow a free spirit to guide me in my liberal leanings; and I will learn through the knowledge afforded me in my natural advantage it gives for discernable options, the importance of deductive reasoning, having common sense and good logic to define how I conduct behavior patterns. There’s more — I endeavor to gravitate around those that propel me higher as I will choose wisely my new friends. I will unclutter my mind, shore up my surroundings for a neater disposition. I will not hesitate to initiate and follow through on those things that need dumping, and will abandon what doesn’t work, and not dwell on things I’m unwilling to commit to fully.
What lies in my soul is everything that can and should fix what is wrong with the world according to man’s agenda to challenge and change the society in which he lives. My soul is my temple and my spiritual being is alive bubbling to the top waiting to explode! Asking me what’s on my mind is opportunity waiting to vociferate anew. I think about how we need to mobilize and support the election of that Black man running for President. The litmus test of loyal is upon us. We need to circle the wagons and support him, and in doing so change would start souls to solidify race to a new dimension. I’m sure there are those that DO believe in his progressive campaign for change, and in the minds of the men I talked to there are hopes, dreams, and accomplished verve that are ours to claim. We shall continue to talk, voice our opinionated views, and be on the mind of others who are wondering what we are thinking. The triumphs of our souls are the victories we claim over adversaries and how we can let others know what we are thinking in our souls. I think about loving the right way, and being loved in return. I think about doing my part to build the Kingdom and make sure that the Joshua generation has the role models to see what needs to be seen for measurable self-esteem. If we can dare to dream, let us have those great expectations and speak volumes for our victories. Check out my smile and measure my heart for the things I say and what I do. I will tell my constituents that there are peaks and valleys to life and that success will require opening up and being accountable. But by no means should they stop the flow of words between them. Continue talking, my brothers, and let your voices and actions be instruments for change. Perhaps the most important regimen for us to grasp is the need to reassert collective genius which has always empowered us in the past to survive. We can do this by loving each other more –but we’ll shout if we have to, and it should be okay!
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